Relationships at work policy
1. Purpose
Birkbeck recognises that personal relationships may exist or develop between members of the College community. The purpose of this policy is to set out how the College will manage the issues that may arise from any such relationship. The aim is to protect the integrity of employees and to recognise any power imbalance that may affect welfare and inclusion. It is not about prohibiting personal relationships at work, but to provide guidance to manage actual or potential conflicts of interest, to establish appropriate standards and promote a safe and positive environment for students and staff.
2. Scope
In the scope of this policy a personal relationship is an intimate relationship which overlaps a professional one. This is defined as:
- a family relationship
- close personal relationship, for example close friendships, business associates
- a romantic/sexual relationship.
And is covered by this policy if it occurs between:
- an employee and a student or prospective student
- an employee and another employee or prospective employee
- an employee and an agency worker or a contractor or a consultant or a prospective agency worker, contractor, or consultant.
3. Managing personal relationships
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3.1 Relationships between an employee and a student
The professional relationship between an employee and a student is vital to the student’s educational advancement. A professional relationship in this context refers to one where the employee has a role in the administration, admission, assessment, supervision, tutoring, teaching, or pastoral care of the student.
The College expects employees to display the highest professional standards at all times and maintain appropriate relationships with students to limit the risk of sexual misconduct, abuse of power or conflict of interest scenarios occurring. Therefore, members of staff are strongly discouraged from entering into personal relationships or developing close personal friendships with students for whom they have a professional responsibility.
Where a personal relationship exists or develops between an employee and a student, the employee must declare the relationship, in confidence, to their line manager, or the line manager’s manager. Whilst the declaration will be treated confidentially, the line manager must seek advice from the Director of Education and Student Experience (or nominee) and the Principal HR Business Partner (or another senior member of the Human Resources Department).
A meeting will be arranged with the employee and their line manager to discuss any potential or actual conflict of interest and the impact of such on the professional role of the employee, and to determine what, if any, steps may be taken. Birkbeck respects an individual’s right to privacy in such situations; therefore, the purpose of this meeting is to agree positive and constructive practical steps, it is not to discuss details of the relationship itself. The Director of Education and Student Experience (or nominee) will hold a meeting with the student to discuss the case.
The line manager and the Director of Education and Student Experience (or nominee) will meet to discuss the findings from the meetings with the member of staff and with the student, in order to agree any actions.
Brief written notes of the meetings should be made and a copy given to the employee from their meeting and to the student from their meeting, along with a record of the agreed actions. The line manager must send the notes of their meeting to the HR Business Partnering team, to upload to the employee’s personal file.
Examples of necessary steps may include, but are not limited to, changing the student’s personal tutor, making alternative assessment arrangements, moving one or both parties to another area of the College, moving the individual to report/study under another employee unrelated to the situation.
All staff must be particularly mindful of students who are either under the age of 18, or an adult known or suspected to be vulnerable. If an employee recognises a student requires support or assistance relating to issues under this policy, which would go beyond their job description, the employee must refer the student to Wellbeing Services who can assist the student appropriately.
Employees who are uncertain as to whether they need to declare a relationship may seek confidential advice from the Principal HR Business Partner. Students can seek advice from the Director of Education and Student Experience (or nominee).
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3.2 Relationships between employees
Where employees who work together are in a personal relationship it can create the potential for a conflict of interest, breach of confidentiality, abuse of power or sexual misconduct scenario to arise.
Where such a personal relationship exists or develops between employees who either work together in the same area, or across faculties/schools/professional services departments, or where one employee in the relationship is in a position of authority over the other, the individuals must declare their relationship in confidence to each of their line managers, or their manager’s manager.
All staff must be mindful of personal relationships between members of staff, particularly where one or both parties are either under the age of 18, or an adult known or suspected to be vulnerable.
Whilst the declaration will be treated confidentially, the line managers may need to seek advice from Human Resources.
A meeting with each employee and their line manager (or next level senior manager where the line manager is party to the relationship) will be held to determine whether there is a potential or actual conflict of interest, and if so, to determine what, if any, steps may need to be taken. Birkbeck respects an individual’s right to privacy in such situations; therefore, the purpose of this meeting is to agree positive and constructive practical steps; it is not to discuss details of the relationship itself.
Brief written notes of the meetings should be made and a copy given to each employee as a record of any agreed actions. The line manager must send these notes to the Human Resources Business Partnering team to upload to the employees’ personal files.
If it is deemed there is a potential conflict of interest under the College’s financial regulations, a member of the Human Resources Business Partnering team will disclose this to the Director of Finance.
If a member of staff is party to decisions on offers of work, payments, promotions, development and/or reward decisions, and they are in a personal relationship with one of the applicants, they should declare the conflict to the Chair of the panel or their line manager, and withdraw from the process.
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3.3 Relationships between an employee and an agency worker, contractor or consultant
Where a personal relationship exists or develops between an employee and an agency worker, contractor or consultant engaged by the College the employee must declare the relationship in confidence to their line manager. Whilst the declaration will be treated confidentially, the line manager may need to seek advice from Human Resources.
A meeting will be held with the employee and their line manager to determine whether there is a potential or actual conflict of interest and if so, to determine what, if any steps may be taken. Birkbeck respects an individual’s right to privacy in such situations; therefore, the purpose of this meeting is to agree positive and constructive practical steps, not to discuss details of the relationship itself.
A meeting may also be held between the manager and the agency worker or consultant to discuss any necessary steps to be taken.
Brief written notes of the meetings should be made and a copy given to the employee and agency worker or consultant as a record of any agreed actions. The line manager must send the notes of the meeting with the employee to the HR Business Partner for the relevant work area to upload to the employee’s personal file.
For contractors, the contracting manager must inform the supplier of the contractor, for the supplier to follow its own process.
4. The recruitment and selection process
It is acknowledged that employees sometimes refer or recommend suitable candidates to the College for existing vacancies. All applicants must follow Birkbeck’s policy on recruitment and selection.
Where an employee is involved in recruiting to a post, and one of the candidates is in a personal relationship with that employee, the employee must declare the relationship in confidence to their line manager, or manager’s manager and must not take part in the short-listing and they must not sit on the recruitment panel or provide references for the candidate.
5. Non-compliance
Failure to disclose a relevant personal relationship as outlined in this policy could lead to action under the Disciplinary and Dismissal Procedure.
6. Responsibilities under this policy
Employees
- Disclose any personal relationships as defined in this policy and in the manner set out.
- Refrain from engaging in activities that may give rise to an actual or potential conflict of interest arising from a personal relationship of the kind set out in this policy.
- Report any potential financial conflict of interest arising from a personal relationship under this policy to the Director of Finance.
Line managers
- Take reasonable steps to ensure that staff are aware of and implement, where appropriate, the provisions set out in this policy.
- Manage conflicts of interest arising from personal relationships of the kind set out in this policy involving staff whom they line manage.
- Liaise with HR to manage the implementation of the policy where appropriate.
- Send a written note of any meetings with an employee under this policy to the HR Business Partnering team, to upload to the employee’s personal file.
- Report any potential financial conflict of interest arising from a personal relationship under this policy to the Director of Finance.
Human Resources
- Provide support and guidance to manage the implementation of the policy.
- Upload a note of any meetings with employees under this policy to the employee’s personal file, once received from the line manager.
- Report any potential financial conflict of interest arising from a personal relationship under this policy to the Director of Finance.
Executive Deans/Directors of Professional Services (or nominees)
- Take reasonable steps to ensure staff within their respective faculties/schools/professional services departments are aware of and implement, where appropriate, the provisions set out in this policy.
- Oversee communication and implementation of this policy.
- Ensure where applicable that potential and actual conflicts of interests arising from personal relationships as defined in this policy are identified, declared, and recorded appropriately, in line with the policy.
- Report any potential financial conflict of interest arising from a personal relationship under this policy to the Director of Finance.
Director of Academic Standards and Quality, and Director of Education and Student Experience
- Manage conflicts of interests arising from personal relationships of the kind set out in this policy with students.
- Liaise with HR to manage the implementation of the policy where appropriate.
- Ensure notes and outcomes of any meetings with students under this policy are sent to the student and a copy is retained, as appropriate.
- Report any potential financial conflict of interest arising from a personal relationship under this policy to the Director of Finance.
Director of Finance
- Report any potential financial conflict of interest arising from a relationship under this policy to the College Governors.
7. Related policies and documents
Policy review
- Version No: 1.0
- Policy owner: Human Resources
- Approved by: University Executive Board
- Date approved: July 2025